This post is more of a general sprinkling of my latest thoughts about a number of things, including masturbation, sex, sex toys, and some Australian politics. I’m not planning for this to be a long post, but if I start to ramble on a bit, please just skip to the comments to leave any thoughts you have so far.
Masturbation
First off, I need to get some feelings off about some of my masturbation habits, or lack thereof. I’m really not sure how many men out there follow my blog, but I’m looking for your thoughts about how frequent you masturbate. At the moment, I’m down to once a week on a good week, and once a month if I’m not feeling in the mood. I really think that it is a lack of stimulation from my partner M at the moment. The sex ban she has put us on really seems to have dampened the mood. So my question really is, is it normal for male sex drive to drop when sex has been taken away from them? And if so, does it return once sex has been restarted in the relationship?
I’d love to hear your comments on the topic.
Sex Toys
How many of my male followers (if you are out there) use sex toys of some description on themselves? And if you do, what sort of toys do you use?
I have myself a sleeve of sorts, and it just doesn’t seem to work for me. My current craving is for an anal toy of sorts, and I’m hoping to one to arrive shortly before I reveal which one it is. I’m certainly hoping that some of my drive will return if I start using it.
Australian Politics
I’ve officially joined the Australian Sex Party because of the current Labor government’s take on the internet filter, the porn search by Customs upon arrival to Australia, as well as the censoring of RC material, and for the raids that have been carried out on sex toy shops here in Australia. Why is it that the government wants to ban adult material from entering the country, when I believe that most adult material would in fact reduce the crime rate of sexual abuse cases in Australia.
I believe that some people may use porn as a way to release their sexual frustration/tension through their imagination with pornography. In fact, Monica Mayhem even claims that sex work is vital in Australia because men/women are able to carry out their fantasies without actually harming people. So for instance, men who like 12 year old women, can act out their fantasies with a prostitute rather than committing the actual crime. I’m not saying that I believe it is right, but I would agree that it may actually reduce the number of instances of that particular crime.
Someone needs to stand up for sex, sex shops, internet porn, and anything else related to porn and sex. So I’m having my say, I’ve joined the party, and we will stand up against Labor and its condemnation of porn.
Dear B. ,
First of all let you say Hello from Germany! And I hope you will forgive me if my English is not so good. But I hope you will understand, and I will also the most understand!
You ask about the frequency to masturbate? Ok, I think they is high, also I live with my girl together. Perhaps the reason therefore is my high erotic fantasies!? Here in Germany I write german erotic stories under the pseudo “House of Mystery”!
Sex toys I haven’t use for myself! The most of my time I’m a little dominant, shortly I have had some fantasies where I’m the under. And then she will use a anal toy.
What me very surprised is that what you write about the Australian politics. That the government bans adult material I have never known, not hear. Why this?
Sex and Erotic is some kind of arts. Just with the right feelings. And that what you have write about the criminal rates, you have absolutely right. What will be, if it don’t give prostitutes? Where do go all the mens, they have not a girlfriend? Where do they still her hunger for love, sex?
Ok, my english is surely bad
but I wish you a nice day! Now here is late evening
HoM