My Cosmopolitan Story

I was asked to prepare a story for a summer edition of Cosmopolitan Australia magazine two weeks ago by Lauren Smelcher. I was given a deadline to prepare the story by, and guidelines for length of the story.

On the day of the deadline, I had finalised the story, and edited as required to meet the guidelines provided to me earlier. I had specially prepared the story in two formats, a Microsoft Word document, and a simple text file. I attached both of these files to my submission email to be sent to Lauren, and at the same time I thought I would send the story to a good friend of mine, Screaming Violet.

I had expected the deadline to be close of business on the date of the deadline, and sent the email at approximately 10am on the deadline date. So it should have been received with plenty of time to spare.

I checked with Violet whether she had received the story, and she told me that she had received it, read it, and complimented us for the quality of the story. So the email was definitely sent, and able to be received.

I thought nothing of it until Violet told me she had received some recommended edits to her story before being included in the publication. I was expecting to receive a reply of some sort, but thought nothing of it when I didn’t receive it. I thought I would email Lauren to see if she didn’t receive it, and her reply email simply said “NOPE”. So I forwarded it again within 2 minutes of receiving her email, so I knew she was likely to have been in the office, and I didn’t receive a reply again.

Yesterday, I decided to follow up, and ask Lauren during business hours if she received my story, she told me that she hadn’t and that it was in fact too late to be included because the deadline had passed. Knowing that I had sent the email on time, with plenty of time to spare, I grew frustrated with their email system.

I sent out two tweets to the main Cosmopolitan Twitter account, and within a few minutes I received an email from Lauren saying that it was unfair for my tweets to have been published. This further frustrated me, and after talking with Violet again, I decided to prepare an email reply to Lauren’s email. I chose not to send it, and have in fact prepared it as an Open Letter to Cosmopolitan Australia. I will also send it direct to Lauren as well.

If you read the letter you will probably better understand my frustration, and what exactly is going through my head at the moment in regards to this.

If writing this open letter means that the editors at Cosmopolitan Australia never consider me again to write for any of their publications, then I am fine with that. If they can’t have a working email system open to receiving emails from me again, then that is really their loss, and not mine.

July 2011

I wasn’t really sure what else to post here on the blog, but I thought I would look at, and create a summary of the most trafficked posts on the site for the month of July.

The blog received 11,199 hits on 361 pages, it isn’t quite the highest traffic month we have had, but it is definitely in the top 3.

I will also see if I can compile a list of the most active commenters as well.

Top 10 Posts

Those are just a few of the amazing posts that can be found on the blog, be sure to look around to see the rest

Top 5 Commenters

  • Anna – 2 comments
  • Ann – 2
  • Warren Bruce – 1
  • jcrew16 – 1
  • xtcnation – 1

I generally add rel=”nofollow” to most outbound links from the site, however since I like to reward my commenters, for the top 5 comments in the previous month, they will receive a link from my blog without rel=”nofollow” added to is so that you will share in my Google juices for PageRank.  So be sure to grab some of the limited juice I will be sharing for the month of August.

I love all your view to the site, but we most certainly appreciate any comments you post here on the blog.

Top 5 Blogs to Read

I’ve contemplated throwing the towel in on this blog, terminating all the review programs I am a part of, and just walking away.

I’m wondering if it is partly to do with the lack of sex blog reading over the last few months. So I’m looking to find a good cluster of sex blogs to read consistently. I want to know what your top 5 sex blogs that you read on a regular basis that I can investigate and compile my own list of recommended reading.

So what are your top 5 blogs to read, and why do you read them?

My Twitter Policy

I’ve been doing some soul searching the past few days when it comes to my Twitter account, and how best I can use it.

Each week I receive many dozen new followers, many of which have not taken the time to change their display picture away from the default ‘egg’ profile picture set by Twitter on a new account, nor have they taken the 5 minutes to write something in their bio for their profile page.

I have decided that I would limit my account to true followers, people who actually take Twitter seriously, and are willing to take the 5 minutes it takes to upload a new profile picture, and include some information in their Twitter bio.

Should you wish to follow me, and more likely have me follow back, I expect as a minimum, a profile picture that is not the default Twitter pic, I would rather the picture at least be of human/s, preferably not children, I don’t wish to see pets, and product or company logos are acceptable, anything other than the default ‘egg’ from Twitter.

Same thing goes for the bio, include something about yourself, if you would rather have some anonymity then don’t put details but what you want your Twitter account to be known for.  The bio helps people find you, so if you are into bondage, say so, if you are into butt plugs, say so.  It took me literally 45 seconds to type mine into Twitter and save it, at least take 30 seconds to write something there.

I know this sounds harsh, but it will definitely show that you are real about Twitter, and not some loony idiot or spambot.

That is all!!

Butt Plug Update #6

Since the wedding, as well as before the wedding, I’ve been very slack when it comes to my butt plugs.  I haven’t used a butt plug in over 2 months I think.  I really need to get back into using them, especially considering that Shellie from Crystal Delights has sent me one of their glass butt plugs.

Maybe this weekend we will give it a test run.  I will probably be the one to wear it while I am fucking M.  I have heard that the orgasms while wearing a butt plug are more intense than the regular male orgasm, so I am really looking forward to that.  Hopefully things pan out the right way to go down that path.

Other than that, not much has been happening, especially not on the blog front obviously, so hopefully I will get back into the swing of things shortly, and get some half decent erotica posted, hopefully along the lines of #WankWednesday and #FuckMeFriday.