It has been almost two months since I decided to take a break from writing here at Our Sex Secrets because I was unhappy, and I wasn’t enjoying blogging  at all (at least “not safe for work” blogging).

I have been through both a high period during my break where I was actually relieved not to be forcing myself to write when I really didn’t want to take the time and spend the effort doing something I had no desire to do.  I have also had times where I missed writing erotic stories and sharing my thoughts and pictures.

I am unsure how long I will stay here at Our Sex Secrets, but given that I have the domain registered for another two years, I would like to see where the site will be in 12 months, and 24 months before deciding whether to renew the domain again.  If you would like to contribute here at Our Sex Secrets, whether by commenting on blog posts, sharing your thoughts with us via email, chatting with us on Twitter (@oursexsecrets & @sexyasianminx), or even taking the time to write some guest posts.  I look forward to hearing from you.

I aim to blog at least weekly, but should there be more times between posts, I apologise up front.  Let me know what you think and would like to see here on Our Sex Secrets.

I came out the other end alive. I managed to survive Australia Day, a day of nothingness for me, but full of excitement for many other people.  @SexyAsianMinx had to work unfortunately, and so I had the house to myself for most of the afternoon and evening.

Having considered letting the Our Sex Secrets blog disappear, I went ahead an renewed the domain for a further 2 years so that it can live on.  Today I considered walking away from the blog, as well as my Twitter account. A combination of tweets from people I follow & who follow me, as well as a blog post or two that others have written has led me to think about the future here at Our Sex Secrets.

I have spent the best part of two years working on, and writing here at Our Sex Secrets and I don’t like the idea of just letting it die.  I would rather see it go to a good home, but I’m not sure anyone would be willing to take it on.  Maybe the domain is worth something, but I don’t know who would want it.

I’m opening up the blog to guest posting to help keep it alive, in return for your contribution, I’m opening to writing a guest post for your blog, or offering some advertising space here in the sidebar.  Let me know what your thoughts are via the contact page.

The year Two Thousand and Eleven has been a long year, with boths ups and downs, but overall I have really enjoyed 2011.

2011 started out as pretty average, in terms of life and the blog. We were reviewing toys regularly, and I wasn’t really writing stories all that much.

Highlight of 2011

In April I got married to my lovely wife.

Lowlight of 2011

Cosmopolitan Magazine fucked up a story that we worked on for a few weeks.

Things I Wished were Better

My story writing certainly needs not only improvement, but also more consistency.

Average Visits per Day

• 2010 – 61 views
• 2011 – 335 views

My summary needs to be much better, maybe my 2012 summary will be better.

I have run two previous polls in the last week or so trying to judge where I should try and see some growth on Our Sex Secrets.  I am hoping that this will be the poll to end all polls about 2012 here on Our Sex Secrets.

I would love if you could take the few minutes to vote and help decide the direction of this blog.