WTMFI Wednesday #1

Have you ever thought about being part of an experiment on the internet, doing something that you wouldn’t normally do? Well I’ve taken the challenge to be a part of WTMFIW (Way Too Much F*cking Information Wednesday).  This week is especially for men, and is generally about penis size and happiness.   I’ve answered as truthfully as I want to, which is pretty truthful.

Do you like your penis or hate your penis? Have you always been okay with the size or have you wanted it to be bigger/smaller?

Personally, I loathe my penis in it’s current state.  I would like to have an extra inch or two in length, particularly when standing to attention, but I would also like to be slightly larger in girth as well.

What is peeing like? Do you sit or stand? Hold it or just let it dangle about? Is aim of huge importance to you?

I’m a standing kind of guy.  I have to hold it, otherwise I get my pants and the toilet all wet, and that doesn’t feel/look very good now does it??

What are you most often thinking about doing sex?

Since I haven’t had sex in quite some time, it hard to know exactly what I think about sex, however, if I were to be having sex, I would probably be thinking about how best to get the girl off, what position we would use next, and where.

If you could change only one part of your body, what would you change and why?

One body part ay?  I think that would have to be my body, I really don’t like the shape of it, I would personally like a slightly more toned body than I have.

When having sex, what is the one thing you are most insecure about?

Cumming too early.

Bonus Q: Boxers or briefs?

Boxers

If you are thinking of revealing more about the real you, maybe you should join me at WTMFIW.

OSS: So Far

I know that so far here at Our Sex Secrets we have primarily just shared a few of our sexual adventures, particularly with our toys and the like, and we wondering how to open ourselves up to you more.  Share a few more details about our lives, and what we can do to be more interactive with our readership.

We are slowly building a collection of adult toys and would love to eventually review them all at some time.  Not really sure how long that will take considering we don’t exactly get much alone-but-together time at all.  I really do wish we were married, would make writing about sexual adventures much easier than it currently is.  We’re lucky to get one orgasm in a fortnight at the moment, more likely one orgasm each a month, and that is through mutual masturbation rather than real sex.

I’m guessing that another way is to interact with other bloggers out there.  Two of our favourite friends, and sex bloggers is Mysty and Nicole, both from Mysty’s Panties.  Nicole’s post about anal pleasures was certainly interesting, considering M is thinking of letting us explore her body more with some of our toys, in particular her anus.  I’m so looking forward to that.

Another blogger I have come across is Screaming Violet.  She is an Australian sex blogger, of which I know about 4, two of them M & I know personally.  One of her most recent posts has opened up a whole new realm of Adult sex bloggers, particularly from Australia.  I’m looking forward to reading each of them in more detail, and getting to know them.

I think that it is signing off time at the moment, I’ll get back with some more in depth information shortly.

e[lust] #14

photo courtesy of Lila

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Answers with an Agenda 1- FistingOnce you’ve gotten started using two fingers for a bit, then it is time to build until four fingers are sliding in and out of the person, and you are on your way.

GaggedI think it’s got to be a combination… fingers sliding into your cunt, a merciless tease of your clit, and yes, it’s going to have to be, lining my cock up with your ass.

Mine – I feel you stir beneath me as I create a rhythm, your breathing changing growing more shallow as you slip from sleep into arousal. My eyes lift to yours as you smile and try to move your arms and then freeze.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Puppet MasterWhen I was right next to them and they still did not notice, I put my lips to his ear (loud music, you know) and whispered “Touch her boobs, I bet she’d like that” and I backed up a foot.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Shaping Some Limits - “If you ever did that to me, I promise you would never see me again”.Those words were spoken to me this past weekend by my pet during one of our overnight dates. The subject was face slapping.

See also: Pleasurists #77 for all your sex toy review needs.

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So Slack

M and I have been so slack recently, and I’m sure that you can tell by the lack of posts in the last 3 weeks or so.

The main reason is that we have had a few issues come up with scheduling special time, as well as some family issues arising for each of us.  It is quite difficult to have a regular sex life without at least one of us owning our own place.

Our sex time is always governed by those around us, who is still at home, and when all the various things happen.  The real problem is shift workers, not knowing when they are coming or going really upsets the apple cart.

I’m sure that you understand this, and I know that you have probably experienced many of the same problems in your life.  Let us know in the comments how you overcame them if you did, and what you did about it if you couldn’t overcome the problems.

e[lust] #10

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~


Negotiation – Not Nearly As Awkward As Having a Breakdown in PublicAll the worries about getting to know a new person (“Am I dressed ok? Are they gonna like my stories about my grandma?”) get exaggerated when you’re talking about sex and desire…


Dollar Store DommeHe definitely can’t elude the dollops of toothpaste I dab onto his nipples. It takes a delicious second before he feels the cool burn penetrate his flesh. By that time I’m already up and selecting a plastic spatula from the credenza.


The Best of Both Worlds or Lost in Limbo?Whether intentional or unthinking, bisexual denial is a frustrating thing for bisexual, pansexual or ‘fluid’ people to have to deal with.


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Navigating Genderqueer in SuburbiaBut pray tell how do the rest of us navigate it? How the hell am I supposed to know if you identify as male or just like dressing like one?


~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~


The Daddy Issue: Sexualizing AbuseI needed to walk through this fear, and turn it into pleasure. I needed to prove to myself that he hadn’t broken me. That he hadn’t changed who I was to become. That I was not affected by what he did. That he didn’t abuse me.


See also: Pleasurists #69 and #70 for all your sex toy review needs.


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Erotic Writing


15 minute phone sex

…And Orgasms On Demand

A Neighbor In Need #7

Afternoon Delight!

Casino

Desperation & Dominance

Dreams

Evening Home, Part 3

First Asleep Loses

Happy ending

I Got….

I am a keeper of secrets

I Got Fucked

I am Coming for You: A Letter to Scin

Late Night Satisfaction

Lolita’s Mother

Making M Squirt

Sir ~ intro

The Hatter

The Flash Fiction Friday FAQ!

Trussed

We fucked, they applauded

Where there is a libido, there is a way

Wicked Wednesday: Idyll


Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships


20 Reasons Why Sex Is Good

Defining Sex

Hurt me, Pet

I Was Raped

Playing Dumb

Red Flags of an Abusive Partner, Part 2

Restrictions and Satisfaction

Someone Else’s Shoes

Sex Isn’t Everything

The Art of Sensual Touching-Caressing for You and Your Partner

The STI You Haven’t Heard of: Molluscum contagiosum

The Suit

Vibrant Woman or Live Masturbation Sleeve

What I Don’t Need


Kink & Fetish


A Little Girl’s Need for Submission

Are You Done Yet?

A Reformatory Punishment

BDSM Advice Series: Floggers

Bruises

Determined to bind

His Slut

I Really Wasn’t In The Mood

Impact

Pain and Healing

Questions From DH About These Things We Do

Surrender

Sub Drop: Fact or Fiction?

Tiiu Ashcraft – Fetish Artist and Beauty

The Eroticism of Tattoos

The Competition

Wanting to want


Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor


A History of Violence

Asshat of the Day Award

Awesome Mentoring Work and Upcoming Apprenticeship