Guest Posting

I came out the other end alive. I managed to survive Australia Day, a day of nothingness for me, but full of excitement for many other people.  @SexyAsianMinx had to work unfortunately, and so I had the house to myself for most of the afternoon and evening.

Having considered letting the Our Sex Secrets blog disappear, I went ahead an renewed the domain for a further 2 years so that it can live on.  Today I considered walking away from the blog, as well as my Twitter account. A combination of tweets from people I follow & who follow me, as well as a blog post or two that others have written has led me to think about the future here at Our Sex Secrets.

I have spent the best part of two years working on, and writing here at Our Sex Secrets and I don’t like the idea of just letting it die.  I would rather see it go to a good home, but I’m not sure anyone would be willing to take it on.  Maybe the domain is worth something, but I don’t know who would want it.

I’m opening up the blog to guest posting to help keep it alive, in return for your contribution, I’m opening to writing a guest post for your blog, or offering some advertising space here in the sidebar.  Let me know what your thoughts are via the contact page.

Glow Stroker Beaded Lips

The Glow Stroker Beaded Lips is a male masturbator.  As with most mastubating sleeves, the Glow Stroker gives a different texture to most of the other strokers that I have, as well as M’s hand, and also masturbating myself.

The Glow Stroker Beaded Lips has 4 beads inside the stroker that rub against the upper side of my cock.  They don’t touch directly, however they can be felt with mild pressure.

The stroker itself is manufactured from TPR, and doesn’t appear to have any residual smell like I expected given my experience with other TPR products.  Being manufactured from TPR, only water based lubricants should be used.

The length of the Glow Stroker Beaded Lips appears to be rather short, and will be sufficient for an average sized cock. Larger cocks will find that they poke out the end of the stroker during use.  The open is rather narrow as well, but with the flexibility and stretchy-ness of the TPR, most cocks can fit inside the Glow Stroker.

We found the product reasonably easy to clean.  We simply rinsed with water and a small amount of soap, and we let it air dry before storing in a zip lock bag in our bedside table.

The Glow Stroker Beaded Lips is probably not a stroker that I would buy having tested the product, however the packaging would possibly entice me if I saw it on the shelf in an adult toy store.

The Glow Stroker Beaded Lips was provided by CalExotics in reply for an honest review.

Deletion

I don’t want this post to be one of those posts where I tell you I’m going to post more often as soon as this post is completed.  I’m actually going to tell you something else.

This domain was due to expire at the end of the month, and I was very tempted to let it expire, and see this blog disappear.  Sure I would have kept a backup of the database, and all the files used and modified. However I have chosen to extend the life of this blog by at least two more years.

I also want to make this blog more community driven.  I posted this earlier this year, and I think it wasn’t a good time to try and gather my blog communities opinions.  The survey is below, and I’d like to hear your thoughts about where I should take Our Sex Secrets.

Please take 30 seconds to complete the poll.

Kneeling Goddess

This amazing goddess has amazing breasts.  I love the way that she is looking at the camera, and the way her breasts rest against her body.  Just gorgeous!!

Source: Curves and Ink

e[Lust] #32

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Photo courtesy of Lady Grinning Soul

Welcome to e[lust], the sex blog round-up- The best posts from the hottest and smartest sex bloggers all in one place! This edition highlights topics such as libido, fake orgasms, teenage lust, voyeurism, BDSM consent and so much more. Want to be included in e[lust] #33? Start with the rules, come back in February to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ The Top Three Posts ~

Assent Matters by SherynBFind your emotional power to recognize and say “no” to what you don’t want BEFORE you get naked and tied up and give up your actual physical power to walk away to anybody.

Forever The Night‘Why the hell shouldn’t I listen? This is my home, my bedroom after all’. So I do listen and I do feel myself twitch at every minute sound on the other side of that fucking wall.

Hands. Fingers. Pleasure.This was the first time a boy’s fingers had such unfettered access to my pussy. Prior gropings under and through clothes had never been like this.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

The Fake Orgasm: You think you know, but you have no ideaI am 34 and I have faked orgasms. There ya have it. But I have never and will never qualify doing so as “I did it for him”.

~ Featured Post (Picked by Lilly) ~

Sadie Says… AwakeIn the haze of my missing libido I also lost myself. I began to wonder if I remembered who the hell I was?

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

Kink & Fetish

Connection, Intimacy & Trust
DQ Earns a Pass from Chasity
Five Little Words
Naked and kinky in a busy sex shop
Sharp Tongues and Good Pain
Sexual violence
The Duke Story
‘Twas the Night Before Kinky
The Pink Elephant
Who I Am
Who Are You to Change Us?
Waking You

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Busy Writing
Help! My Vibrator Won’t Work
Men and Visual Stimulation
Slippery and sticky and covered in lube
The Safe Zone – Giving Yourself Permission To Screw Up in Non-Monogamy
Until Death Do Us Part

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Interview With Senior Sexuality Advocate Joan Price

Erotic Writing

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A Read to Remember
Aurelia (A Dirty Kind Of Grace part 1)
A Fistful
banana bread
Christmas Day
Last night in Cap D’Adge
Later On In The Evening
Meat Hooks & Butcher’s Twine
Reside
Sugarbutch Star: blckndblue, The Pink Dress
she and he and me…
Surprise Orgasm
wind